Dependent Personality Disorder

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Running Time: Over 100 minutes
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ISBN: 978-1-4338-0120-4
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Copyright: 2008
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Description

In Dependent Personality Disorder, Robert F. Bornstein demonstrates his integrated treatment approach to working with clients who have a dependent coping style. This approach integrates techniques from the psychodynamic and cognitive traditions, along with experiential and behavioral elements. Treatment initially focuses on helping the client gain insight into the origin and dynamics of their problematic dependency.

In this session, Dr. Bornstein works with a recently married woman in her early 30s who is experiencing problems because her husband is critical and needy, and she is not assertive enough to deny his requests for help. Dr. Bornstein helps the client to see her part in creating this dependent dynamic, and together they look for ways to move toward a healthier relationship.

Approach

Effective treatment of the dependent patient requires an integrated treatment strategy drawing primarily from the psychodynamic and cognitive traditions, but also involving behavioral and experiential techniques. The initial focus of treatment is on helping patients gain insight into the origins and dynamics of their problematic dependency—the history of their dependent coping style and the factors that maintain this style in the present. Once adequate insight has been achieved, cognitive and experiential strategies are introduced to alter dysfunctional cognitions and emotional responses, with the goal of moving the patient from unhealthy (mindless, reflexive) dependency to healthy (mindful, goal-directed) connectedness. The final phase of treatment focuses on strengthening coping skills and implementing relapse-prevention strategies.

Several techniques facilitate this process:

Analysis of Core Relational Themes

Interpersonal interaction episodes that share a common dynamic and emerge in different contexts can be particularly useful in enhancing insight. Analysis of these core relational themes helps dependent patients understand maladaptive relational patterns and distorted perceptions of self and others.

A three-step process is used to deconstruct each interaction episode:

  • exploration of the patient's wishes, intentions, and fears
  • scrutiny of the other person's response
  • examination of the patient's characteristic manner of coping with this response

Exploration of Transference and Countertransference Dynamics

To supplement interpretation of core relational themes it is vital that the clinician create a supportive therapeutic milieu that does not recapitulate destructive dynamics from the patient's past and current relationships. Dependent patients often idealize the therapist and perceive the therapist as a powerful pseudoparental caregiver; making this transference reaction explicit is key to effective therapy. The clinician must also be sensitive to countertransference responses (e.g., frustration, infantilization) that undermine treatment.

Maladaptive Schemas

Self-defeating thoughts regarding the self and other people cause dependent patients to doubt their abilities, denigrate their skills, and exaggerate the imagined consequences of less-than-perfect performance.

Three schema-based cognitive distortions are particularly salient in the intra- and interpersonal dynamics of dependency:

  • automatic thoughts (i.e., reflexive thoughts that are cued by perceived or anticipated failure)
  • negative self-statements (i.e., self-blaming statements that exacerbate the patient's lack of self-confidence)
  • attributional bias (i.e., a skewed interpretive style wherein dependent patients punish themselves for perceived failures but cannot accept credit for successes)

Altering these maladaptive schemas sets the stage for long-term changes in cognitive and emotional patterns.

Use of Socratic Methods to Enhance Problem-Solving Skills

To foster a therapeutic alliance the therapist should take an active approach early in treatment, providing considerable feedback and structure. When dependent patients develop skills that enable them to make meaningful changes quickly their sense of control is enhanced. To facilitate this shift the therapist uses Socratic methods—active, guided questioning—to help patients generate solutions and insights. Self-control strategies (e.g., self-monitoring, self-reinforcement) provide patients with skills needed to replace reflexive help-seeking with mindful problem-solving.

Relapse Prevention During the Latter Stages of Treatment

As therapy progresses the patient is taught to identify high-risk situations and dependency triggers (i.e., internal and external cues that activate dependency-related schemas and prompt dependent behaviors). Alternative ways of coping are discussed, and patients are encouraged to reframe setbacks so minor backslides are not magnified into global failure experiences. If a setback occurs within therapy, this is treated as a potential learning experience rather than a therapeutic impasse.

This integrated treatment approach may be used with a range of clients from late adolescence onward. Common presenting complaints include interpersonal loss (e.g., divorce, death of a family member), assertiveness difficulties, enmeshed relationships with parents and siblings, and conflicts with colleagues and authority figures at work. This treatment strategy may be used with higher-functioning personality-disordered clients, but it is not appropriate for clients with prominent psychotic features, or those with significant organic deficits (e.g., dementia, brain injury).

About the Therapist

Robert F. Bornstein, PhD, received his doctorate in clinical psychology from the State University of New York at Buffalo in 1986, completed a year-long internship at the Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY, and is professor of psychology at Adelphi University.

Dr. Bornstein has published numerous articles and book chapters on personality dynamics, assessment, and treatment. He wrote The Dependent Personality (Guilford Press, 1993); The Dependent Patient: A Practitioner's Guide (American Psychological Association, 2005); When Someone You Love Needs Nursing Home Care (with Mary Languirand; Newmarket Press, 2001); Healthy Dependency (Newmarket Press, 2002); and coedited seven volumes of the Empirical Studies of Psychoanalytic Theories series (with Joseph Masling; all published by the American Psychological Association).

Dr. Bornstein is a fellow of the American Psychological Association, American Psychological Society, and Society for Personality Assessment; his research has been funded by grants from the National Institute of Mental Health and the National Science Foundation.

Dr. Bornstein received the Society for Personality Assessment's 1995, 1999, and 2002 awards for Distinguished Contributions to the Personality Assessment Literature, and received the Division 12/American Psychological Foundation 2005 Theodore Millon Award for Excellence in Personality Research.

Suggested Readings
  • Bornstein, R. F. (1993). The dependent personality. New York: Guilford Press.
  • Bornstein, R. F. (1997). Dependent personality disorder in the DSM-IV and beyond. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice, 4, 175–187.
  • Bornstein, R. F. (2004). Integrating cognitive and existential treatment strategies in psychotherapy with dependent patients. Journal of Contemporary Psychotherapy, 34, 293–309.
  • Bornstein, R. F. (2005). The dependent patient: A practitioner's guide. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.
  • Bornstein, R. F. (2005). The dependent patient: Diagnosis, assessment, and treatment. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 36, 82–89.
  • Bornstein, R. F., & Languirand, M. A. (2003). Healthy dependency. New York: Newmarket Press.
  • Coen, S. J. (1992). The misuse of persons: Analyzing pathological dependency. Hillsdale, NJ: Erlbaum.
  • Hopkins, L. B. (1986). Dependency wishes and fears in long-term psychotherapy: An examination of clinical issues. Psychotherapy, 23, 535–539.
  • Overholser, J. C. (1987). Facilitating autonomy in passive-dependent persons: An integrative model. Journal of Contemporary Psychotherapy, 17, 250–269.
  • Pincus, A. L., & Gurtman, M. B. (1995). The three faces of interpersonal dependency: Structural analysis of self-report dependency measures. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 69, 744–758.

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