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Protecting Children From Sexual
Abuse
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The typical
advice "Don't Talk to Strangers" doesn't apply in this case. Most sexual perpetrators
are known to their victims. |
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Do not instruct
children to give relatives hugs and kisses. Let them express affection on their
own terms. |
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Teach your children basic
sexual education. Teach them that no one should touch the "private" parts of their
body. A health professional can also help to communicate sex education to children
if parents are uncomfortable doing so. |
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Develop strong communication
skills with your children. Encourage them to ask questions and talk about their
experiences. Explain the importance of reporting abuse to you or another trusted
adult. |
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Teach your
children that sexual advances from adults are wrong and against the law. Give
them the confidence to assert themselves against any adult who attempts to abuse
them. |
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Make an effort to know
children's friends and their families. |
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Instruct your child to
never get into a car with anyone without your permission. |
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Teach your children that
their bodies are their own. That it is OK to say they do not want a hug or that
certain kinds of contact make them uncomfortable. |
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It is important to remember
that physical force is often not necessary to engage a child in sexual activity.
Children are trusting and dependent and will often do what is asked of them to
gain approval and love. |
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What To Do If You Think a Child You Know Has Been
the Victim of Sexual Abuse  |
