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Dr. Savin-Williams is first and foremost a developmental psychologist, retraining as a clinical psychologist a decade ago. He was trained as a psychodynamic therapist and this is the core of his clinical work. However, he uses the motto "whatever works" and thus is consistently shifting gears within and across clients after assessing what it is that they need and what will work best with them. For example, after a certain point with some clients, insight fails to change behavior or perceptions and cognitive, behavioral, or psychiatric work might prove to be most effective. Dr. Savin-Williams is, essentially, an extreme eclectic. What works is the root of his therapeutic work. Based on his developmental research during the past 2 decades on the lives of individuals with same-sex attractions, Dr. Savin-Williams feel comfortable with his knowledge about the kinds of issues that emerge in their lives. He has listened to the stories of hundreds of lives and what most impresses him is that in most cases, their issues are the same as those of other clients—they too worry about gaining popularity, coping with their parents, taking out trash, finding the love of their life, wondering how to express their sexuality, and wondering about their careers. The unique addition is their same-sex sexuality and this added component might have very little or, by contrast, tremendous influence on the scope of their lives. Dr. Savin-Williams views his task as a therapist as finding out whether and, if so, how clients' sexuality impacts their self-perception and identity, relationships with parents and friends, romantic relationships, and career options and selections among many life issues. As a therapist he, of course, listens, supports, empathizes, and encourages exploration of feelings and perceptions. But he also does two other things that he believes are critical:
Both of these are particularly critical because it is not uncommon to discover considerable distortion and pessimism among clients about what their lives must be like if they have their same-sex sexuality. Dr. Savin-Williams attempts to correct these misperceptions and give them hope about living in a world that is dramatically changing (which he is prone to support with concrete data) and might well continue to change in terms of attitudes toward same-sex sexuality. Indeed, clients might not lose friends (at least the worthy ones), not be rejected by parents (family members often do not want gay family members but in most cases unconditional love conquers), be popular (king or queen of the prom is not out of the question), and be able to marry or be civil unioned. Dr. Savin-Williams says, "In my therapy room, nothing is off limits." |
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