Another set of guidelines focuses on relationships. The guidelines urge psychologists to respect diverse relationships and recognize the complexity of sexual health for sexual minorities.
Polyamorous relationships are one example. While research suggests that heterosexual and sexual minority people engage in consensually nonmonogamous relationships at similar rates, mental health practitioners often stigmatize such behavior among sexual minorities. In addition to lacking knowledge about this relationship structure, they may claim nonmonogamy is inferior to monogamy or even push patients to renounce these relationships.
“Both socially and clinically, there are many different types of relationship structures that are healthy, normative, and appropriate,” said Dispenza. “These relationship structures should not be pathologized.” Intake forms might just have one line for spouse or partner when a patient may have multiple partners, for example.
Psychologists may hold similarly stigmatizing views about sexual health. “There is a long history of pathologizing sex in this community, connecting it with HIV and other sexually transmitted infections, high-risk behaviors, and bad relationships,” said Dispenza. While rates of new HIV infections are highest among sexual minority men, that narrow focus has meant a lack of attention to other aspects of sexual health. Sexual minority women, for instance, experience much higher rates of sexual assault than heterosexual women.
Other guidelines urge psychologists to understand sexual minority people’s families—both their families of origin and families of choice. Coming out to families of origin can result in conflict, internalized stigma, and adverse psychological outcomes, with acceptance and rejection influenced by the family’s racial and ethnic background and religious beliefs. Psychologists should respect a patient’s decision not to disclose their identity to their families. Psychologists should recognize that sexual minority patients may have other forms of close relationships and inquire about significant relationships beyond biological family. While research shows there are no disadvantages for children raised by sexual minority parents and there are associated strengths, sexual minority parents face stigma, adverse policies, and other challenges that psychologists should strive to understand.
Psychologists also need to understand the educational issues sexual minorities face. At the high school level, for example, sexual minority students report higher levels of in-person and online bullying, violence, and sexual violence than their heterosexual peers. The victimization does not stop once students head to college. Sexual minority college students, especially those who have other forms of oppressed identities, report more isolation, drug use, depression, and suicidal ideation.
In addition, psychologists need to understand the unique issues sexual minorities face on the job. Discrimination and other factors lead to higher overall rates of poverty for this population.