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Making the Adjustment

Going to college is a rite of passage for parents and guardians, as well as for students. Here are a few FAQs for guidance.

What will happen when you’re not always there to be an advocate for your child? 

This time is used by students to explore and advocate for themselves without an IEP. College is a positive challenge but will require adjustment for students and their parents. This guide is a resource for you to consult as your child begins the transition from home to campus and beyond.

As a parent of a soon-to-be college student, are there any sources I might consult so I know what to do and not do?

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American Psychological Association. (2018, April 5). Adjusting to college: A brief guide for parents of students with disabilities. https://www.apa.org/pi/disability/resources/parent-college-guide

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Will my child’s college or university have support services for students with disabilities?

Exploring the university or college’s office of disability support services will give you and your student insight to which services are going to be provided. If you are unable to contact them directly, all questions can be answered through the admissions office.

How can I help my child make the transition from high school to college?

When my child decides where to apply for admission, should we visit the campuses?

Yes, absolutely. Your child should make it a point to explore any college her or she is interested in attending to learn how to navigate from place to place and identify any unexpected barriers they might encounter.

Should I speak to my child’s professors about his or her particular needs?

Generally speaking, no, you should not intervene. Most schools require a signed release from students permitting discussion between parents and faculty. Your child should be learning how to become their own advocate.

What about grades, studying and choosing a major? How involved should I be?

The first year in college is a big change. It is normal for students to struggle a little, so discussing academic supports and expectations the summer before school starts can be beneficial. Encourage your child to be responsible for their education.

I want to check in on my child to make sure everything is okay, but I don’t want to turn into a “helicopter parent,” either. What can I do?

Arranging a specific time to communicate during the week with your student and using social media, email and instant messaging can also be used to keep in touch.

When I talk to my child, what should I ask about?

Asking general questions about what their learning, what the food is like and their living situation is okay. Listening to and encouraging them to do better is effective.

Additional resources can be:

Additional Resources

All college students should seek out their campus resources as soon as possible. A few include:

  • Campus Police
    Campus police can assist with understanding how to stay safe on campus.
  • University/ College Counseling Center
      These centers can assist a student maintain a healthy well-being while in college.
  • Title IX Coordinators
    These individuals assist students who have been sexually assaulted on campuses. If your campus does not have a Title IX coordinator make sure your student contacts the Dean of Student Affairs before the semester starts to identify who will handle such inquiries.
  • Disability Resources Office
    This office can work with students to identify accommodations and assistive technology needs the student may have in college.

Is Your Student Interested in Psychology?

The American Psychological Association is a great place to learn about the discipline of psychology. APA’s mission is to advance the creation, communication and application of psychological knowledge to benefit society and improve people’s lives.” To learn about the discipline of psychology and the scope of APA, visit the organization’s website.

Use these resources to navigate your future in psychology:

To see what resources APA has available for people with disabilities, please visit the website of Disability Issues in Psychology.

Date created: 2018

For Students With Disabilities