Wishful perceiving bias
People often misperceive the values and beliefs of those with whom they are close and assume they see things the same way, according to a study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. In six studies spanning four countries (Finland, Israel, Italy, and Poland), more than 2,200 participants responded to surveys about the values and beliefs of their spouses or romantic partners, children, parents, and close friends, as well as how closely these individuals aligned with participants’ personal values and beliefs. Participants tended to assume their close others shared their own values, even when controlling for the others’ actual values and beliefs. The effect was stronger in closer relationships. The researchers suggest one consequence of this bias is that if children perceive their parents’ values as similar to their own, they may not learn their parents’ real values.
DOI: 10.1037/pspi0000482opens in new window


