skip to main content

Common Problems that Caregivers and Care Recipients Face

Common Problems that Caregivers and Care Recipients Face

Physical Health

Both caregivers and care recipients can face several issues related to physical and psychological health and financial burdens. Many of these issues are inter-related as caregiving can encompass a range of challenges, but there are resources to help you through this.

expand all

It is important for caregivers to be aware of the effects of stress and strain on their physical health. Heightened caregiving demands can create situations where the caregiver takes less time for themselves. Annual health exams, flu shots and regular visits for health conditions such as high blood pressure and diabetes often get put on hold. Regular exercise and nutritious meals decrease. This puts caregivers at risk for poorer health and worsening health conditions they may already have. To help yourself and the one you are caring for, check out the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's recommended preventive health care actionsopens in new window. Also, be sure to check in regularly with your physician to make sure you are maintaining your own health.

Learn more about how to prevent and cope with emotions commonly experiences by caregivers:

Each caregiving experience is different and can require different resources depending on the health issue being faced. Please see our lists of support organizations, resources and factsheets related to cancer, end of life care, stroke, dementia, neurological disorders and other health conditions.

Psychological Health

Have you or your loved one been experiencing any of the following?

  • Worry, anxiety or panic attacks.
  • Sadness or depression.
  • Feeling pressured and hurried.
  • Irritability and moodiness.
  • Difficulty concentrating and making decisions.
  • Stomach problems, headaches or chest pain.
  • Problems sleeping.
  • Feeling overwhelmed and helpless.
  • Eating too much or not enough.

If you encounter or notice these often then you are experiencing the effects of stress.

Financial, Legal and Ethical Issues

There are useful resources available to help caregivers and those who receive care determine what benefits they are eligible for to alleviate financial difficulties as well as a resources for balancing budgets.

Legal

Advance Care Planning

The caregiver situation creates a particularly important atmosphere to open a line of conversation about planning for future care (known also as advanced care planning). Making health care plans for the future is an important, at all ages, to ensure your loved one gets the health care they want, based on their personal values and preferences, even when doctors and family members are making the decisions for them. The American Bar Association Commission on Law and Aging has a useful document. "Conversation Scripts: Getting Past the Resistance"opens in new window (PDF, 41.84KB) helps broach and discuss this sometimes difficult discussion. 

Getting Documents

Based on your discussion and the preferences decided, you can find more information about legal documents including health care advance directives (such as a living will or durable power of attorney for health care) to document these preferences in writing.

Ethical

Elder Abuse

Family caregivers are in a unique position to detect elder abuse and neglect that may happen to an older adult they are caring for. Consider the following examples: 

The daughter of a 68-year old widowed gentleman discovers a bank statement showing $20,000 transfer of funds to girlfriend's account. Daughter is concerned about her father's well-being; she described his 5-year relationship with the girlfriend as “tumultuous” and recently removed him from his home following an argument involving the girlfriend throwing things and yelling at her father. 

A family caregiver says that her mother received a threatening letter from her long-time friend and handyman who states he will discontinue helping with home repair and transportation unless she pays him more money. 

It is important for family caregivers to be aware of elder abuse and advocate on behalf of older individuals who may feel ashamed by the situation or are unaware of what constitutes abuse.

Elder Abuse Resources

For more information on elder abuse, please see the following resources.
Date created: 2017